tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post1028161718671330042..comments2022-06-07T11:33:34.887-05:00Comments on PostScript Confessions: P.S. A Cowboy On The SideP.S.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10065757058132456878noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-383734125883173502010-12-06T06:58:39.375-06:002010-12-06T06:58:39.375-06:00Oh please. There is NO excuse for cheating. It&#...Oh please. There is NO excuse for cheating. It's a choice... and an extremely selfish one. You say you love your husband, but really? How can you do something so awful to someone you say you "love"?? What if the situation were reversed, how would you feel about your husband making out with another woman?<br />So your husband isn't perfect... I haven't met anyone who IS. Either work through your problems or leave. Your husband deserves better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-42322266571888076212010-12-02T23:26:24.573-06:002010-12-02T23:26:24.573-06:00I come from a home where cheating happened, again ...I come from a home where cheating happened, again and again. Don't do it. It IS a choice and it's the most selfish one you can make. If you are having distance problems with your husband- talk to him or at least try to work things through first. If you can't do that or you guys can't work it out- then leave. But don't stoop to this level.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-71384700007073737192010-12-02T17:03:44.491-06:002010-12-02T17:03:44.491-06:00No judgement from me either. I am currently in a ...No judgement from me either. I am currently in a similar situation, but probably a lot worse as we have slept together. We started this years ago, took a break for 8 years and it has just recently started again like we never didn't see each other for that time. I love my husband dearly, but he doesn't fulfill every need. I hope that you find your answers. I still search for mine everyday. I don't want to crush my husband, but...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-43968653829310225942010-12-02T15:52:53.309-06:002010-12-02T15:52:53.309-06:00Imagine if the situation was reversed and your hus...Imagine if the situation was reversed and your husband was the one step away from sleeping with another woman. If you are OK with that scenario then maybe you should leave your husband.<br /><br />Cheating is a choice - no excuses.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-17338648417823370502010-12-02T15:40:45.300-06:002010-12-02T15:40:45.300-06:00No judgment from me. However, if you are not feel...No judgment from me. However, if you are not feeling guilty that may mean your heart is not in it with your husband and you need to end it. <br /><br />You can't have both.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-17370215612475246582010-12-02T15:27:55.595-06:002010-12-02T15:27:55.595-06:00I am currently in a very similiar situation. I am ...I am currently in a very similiar situation. I am not married but have been in a long term relationship for 5 years. We do have a few things in common but there is a 15 year age gap.<br /><br />I have been intimate with someone else and I have been tempted to say something to my BF but I think it would shatter him. I have begged and pleaded with him to be more intimate with me but it has been over a month since we had sex.<br /><br />I don't have any words of wisdom for you. Just know that you are not the only one in this situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-84296383833115729052010-12-02T14:44:53.273-06:002010-12-02T14:44:53.273-06:00In my honest opinion, granted I am slightly jaded ...In my honest opinion, granted I am slightly jaded because I was the person who was cheated on, you need to be be upfront with your husband. And either you two can work on things, or call it quits. Just know that he will eventually find out, and well I was glad my husband came to me, and I did not hear from someone else. Good luck, I hope you make the best decision for your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-50737305837529040262010-12-02T14:41:43.248-06:002010-12-02T14:41:43.248-06:00Wow...that's a tough one. You'll find no ...Wow...that's a tough one. You'll find no judgement here. I hope you find the answers you're looking for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993215639297555923.post-91572552051946232862010-12-02T14:40:42.757-06:002010-12-02T14:40:42.757-06:00hmmm, I don't think you should make you husban...hmmm, I don't think you should make you husband into anything other than what he is. You need to either accept him as he is, and love him for that, or accept the fact that he can not give you what you are looking for and end things before you go to far with someone who appears to be everything your husband is lacking. I understand about having separate interests, and how difficult that can be, so I wish you the best of luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com